The text printed on the subsequent pages is devoted to three issues: the joy of sex, intimate massage, and erotic games and foreplay. Their keystone is intimate touch. Its function cannot be overestimated, not only in its relation to sex but also to health, personal well-being, cheerfulness and life energy, etc. Its most evident role is in intimate massage. Of course, things are different between people dear to one another and strangers. In the first instance, intimate massage can be a prelude to sex, while in the second case it is just a service performed for a specific purpose. This publication is intended just as much for the single audience as it is for couples. This is why sex and massage are intertwined together in this book. However, it does not mean that the author is encouraging sexual intercourse at the end of a massage. Unless, of course, it is a result of the partners’ closeness and spontaneity.
First of all, this publication shows the outstanding role of intimate touch for our health and well-being. Therapeutic intimate massage is not an overstatement for this special kind of massage because, its proper use, leads to the production of large amount of endorphins which affect our mood. This mechanism of our brain activity was described in Sexual Healing by Barbara Keesling, PhD.
It turns out that the same results can achieve during intimate massage. So, this is why more than 300 ways of erotic and intimate touch are described in the book. One does not have to check out all of them but instead finding a reasonable quantity that corresponds to the temperament.
The best way to know a book’s content, in a short period of time, it is looking through its chapters’ subjects. So, here they are:
PART 1
The Healing Power of Touch, Eroticism, and Intimacy
For Those Who Want to Give a Massage
More Than Words: Sensual Massage and Other Pleasures
From Touch to Massage
Similarities in the Erogenous Zones
PART 2
Man on the Peak
It Is Worth Knowing
Oh, What a Massage—Fun for Women
Massaging a Flaccid Member
Massaging an Erect Penis
Testicle Massage
As Hard as a Rock … and Other Exercises
Tradition of Oral Massage
Intimate Massage Healing
PART 3
Enjoy Your Femininity
The Anatomy of Female Bliss
Arousal, Desire, and Orgasm
Breast Massage
The Joy of Intimate Massage
The Art of Cunnilingus
PART 4
Erotic Games
How to Awaken Desire—Intimate Caressing for Both
Erotic Calisthenics for Both Sexes
Erotic Games
Intimate Exam—Healthy Fun
Just for Women—Twenty Two Ways to a “Happy Ending”
Eastern Wisdom
Conclusion
Glossary
Bibliography & Comments
Remember that by taking time to read this book there is nothing to lose, except a conventional outlook on sexuality, and there is so much to gain. Satisfaction in the bedroom is after all synonymous to satisfaction from life. “In the bedroom” in this case means not only traditional sex, but also intimate and erotic massage as well as any erotic games and foreplay. These elements of intimate relationships produce intense pleasure without which life just could not be full.
This book promotes healthy, safe and fun sexual experiences especially in the form of intimate massage. It also suggests ways to bring in more excitement into the bedroom through erotic games and foreplay. Many of those attributes provide not only pleasure but are also capable of having a therapeutic effect. They are a source of satisfaction and great intimate experiences for men and women alike. Intimate massage may be a form of therapy for those who have become addicted to sex. It can help to cure the addiction by substituting sex by different types of massage which do not deprive the patient of full satisfaction. Having sex just to have sex is pointless. After all, its purpose is to attain joy from being with one’s partner, to relax, to reach ecstasy and feel great as well as to learn and accept your and your partners needs. Unfortunately, these goals seem to lose importance as the level of sexual attraction decreases in a relationship. Intimate and erotic massage can help to realize the importance of these values even for those partners who are bored with each other. Instead of changing partners it is worth to give intimate massage a shot.
The following statement was written by one of the regular clients of a massage parlor as an answer to my questionnaire about her experiences: “Intimate massage is a great experience that can replace sexual intercourse as well as oral sex, which is considered by many men as the most exciting form of sexual experience. Not all women, especially those who are just beginning their sexual journey, are ready for oral sex, and intercourse isn’t always possible for them. A good alternative is of course intimate massage. A correctly performed massage can be an awesome experience which can be hard to believe if you haven’t experienced it before. It can be a great way to complement your sex life.”