A Man's Secrets, Revealed

Hello. I would like to take this opportunity to give you and all other women the knowledge and awareness of possibilities of all men you would be in a relationship with. If you've ever had doubts about your man's fidelity, if you've ever wished you knew how to keep that special flame lit, then this is the guide you'll need. —Sound interesting? If you are a woman who has ever questioned your own independence, suffered emotional, mental, or physical damage, confusion, stress and headaches over your relationship, or if you've been a witness, or victim, of unfortunate circumstances due to a man then this book will be your guide out of those situations and conditions. I have created a solution to end emotional, mental and physical conflict between you and a man. In this book you will receive valuable, life—long, and simple instructions on how to visualize how men operate in shady circumstances, when they do not have your best interests in mind. Once you can visualize how men will operate in certain scenarios, you will be able to avoid those situations. The nature of your relationship with your man greatly depends on how it started. If it didn’t begin with complete honesty and total disclosure, then it will end with deceit and heartbreak. If you don’t communicate openly with your man from the beginning, you could, years later, find that you’ve been “the other woman” all along. Communication is what separates winners from dupes. Unfortunately, this open communication must begin with women. From the beginning it is always wise for a woman to ask her man to lay all his cards on the table. This is best accomplished before your first sexual encounter. Men will always hesitate, so as to protect concealed emotions from being shattered. The quest for sex will motivate your man to be as open as you ask him to be. Investigate his past relationships by asking respectful, but probing questions. This will give you a feel for what types of situations he allows himself to end up in. This will also let you know how to avoid those pit-falls, letting you know how not to make the mistakes of his previous lovers. No matter what he reveals, directly announce to him that you will not be partaking in, or tolerating, any infidelity or lies. Your letting him know these things up front will let him know your policy. This spoken contract will cause him to think twice before engaging in ungentlemanly behavior, outside of your relationship. Your open communication will cause him to be more open in conversation with you. Three things can resolve problems before they occur and destroy a relationship: 1 – Communication 2 – Investigation 3 – Regulations Men are very agreement oriented. If you’re not going out of your way to make an informed agreement as to the limits and expectations of your relationship, this will catch him off guard. He will respect you more. Like it or not, men are just big children, and sometimes they need to be taught how to behave. The best way to teach a child is to help them figure things out for themselves. That help happens through conversation. It also helps, if, when he comes to his realizations, you pretend to come to the same realizations, at the same time, or just after him. Men like to feel like they’re smarter than woman. A little ego-boost never hurts anyone. Remember: some men just need to be taught that it’s okay to not lie. Do you have personal goals in life? If so, you must ask yourself if they include your man, or if they revolve around your man. The worst is if you have goals that don’t’ include your man. If that’s the case, you have already doomed your relationship from selfish intentions, which clearly show a fine line of separation of relationship achievements. Being a career woman is great! As long as you purposely, leave yourself space in your plans to enjoy your life with your man. If a man feels excluded, he will naturally desire to be somewhere. He wants to feel important enough to be included. Beware if your goals and plans completely revolve around your man. While this is noble and romantic, if your man isn’t 100% in the same frame of mind as you, he is going to seek another woman, who he sees having more drive and ambition that he misses from you. Ambition equals passion, and men love passionate women, especially if he can get you passionate about him. When a man sees you taking care of yourself, he’ll see you as an equal and not a burden and offer more respect to you. Being a career type woman, and keeping a man, can be an extremely easy thing if you remain conscious of what signals your body is sending to your man. If you have had a tough and long day after work, and you’re finally home with your man, not feeling your fullest form of relief, he’ll think you view him as nothing but another one of your subordinates. He’ll naturally unconsciously be drawn to women who see him as the strong and viral man he likes to feel he is. If, however, you’re the strong career type woman, whose demeanor softens when you see your man with your shoulders relaxed, eyes wide open with a smile. Whenever he’s around, this sends the signals to your man. You’re his only feminine companion. If these bodily signals from you are coupled, with a hug using your entire body, too, he’ll really know that he’s important and loved by you, no matter what the setting may be.