Sexolution with Loveartivity

Sexolution with Loveartivity was inspired by the author’s experiences and those from other close associates. I’ve interviewed many persons from both sexes to try to have a balanced view of the topic. This book was done without much structured and formal research. It is centered around the average Jane and Joe basically from working class background, people who have to struggle to feed their families while attending regular jobs. It is a very down to earth and creative compilation of ideas and responses to the subject at hand. This book is not exclusive to the aristocracy or even the rich and famous. Sexolution with Loveartivity strives to show the other side that is not portrayed on TV or the internet or any other components of mass communication. There are many persons with unfulfilled and real sexual relationships. More often than not, there are many persons today who are well-learnt, articulate, prosperous, attractive, yet they remain surprisingly lonely and relationship wise empty. John Lennon in one of his hit songs expressed, “I’m just sitting here watching the wheels go round and round.” This is in essence, pure monotony without any purpose; a wasted and unfulfilled love life now so common-place in modern societies. Many of the persons involved in the entertainment industry have shady lifestyles and sometimes the decisions they make in selecting film scripts and giving awards to these films are based on a distorted perception of reality, love, relationships and sex. They argue vehemently that they are real life experiences of persons; hence they connect with an audience. Now you who are trying to raise your children correctly have to struggle on a daily basis to shield them from the negative influences that bombard them constantly; whether through internet, TV or other means of mass communication. I can see you now panting as you read these lines saying “you are responsible for what your children watch on TV and the internet.” This may be so, but it’s also difficult to control what they do watch when they’re not at home. Fulfilling your love life and sexuality is a lifelong opportunity. We may or may not seek to change our overall view and perception about sex. We may seek to change some of our attitudes or we may be happy as we are. It is my belief that love and sexuality can only be understood when aspects of self and sex, sex and feelings, sex and intimacy, sex and religion and sex and culture are fully explored and integrated. This book explores these parameters in a subtle and poetic manner, never before done in the print or electronic media. The format in which it was executed is indeed a first. It is a true experiment of all the aforementioned dimensions of love and sexuality. In a nutshell, it is love in its three dimensions, Agape, Eros, Philia. This book was written to give hope and forgiveness back to marriage and courtship. But most of all it was written to prevent divorces. I have written this book to make you start thinking about marriage and increasing the desire to be married if you’re not, strengthening your marriage, and to teach you how to spice up your marriage so that you do not end up in divorce. Of course, I start from the premise that marriage is between a man and a woman. It was Leo Bucaglia in his book, “Living, Loving and Learning” who writes, “to love is to risk not being loved in return, to hope is to risk pain, to try is to risk failure, but risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing. Only the person who risks nothing is free.” Bob Marley on the other hand says, “emancipate yourself from mental slavery, none but ourselves can free our minds.” Not being able to communicate your emotions, not being able to have a fulfilling act are subtle demonstration of mental slavery. The ideas expressed in this book are not based on fiction. They come out of real life experiences of real life people, real flesh and blood persons who get up everyday to make a living to provide for their families and themselves. It is generally not the experiences of the rich and famous. They too may be able to connect with the real love and affection and real sex with a purpose and just not sex in a bubble and in a hurry. Happy reading!