God is with you even when the pain hurt so bad ,prayer is one of the strongest weapons against the fear of pain. Most of us have experienced the pain sometimes or another in life . Relationship divisions wound us deeply. Friend or colleagues may hurt us, but when betrayal arises from within our own family, the pain is profound . When person that we love the most is disloyal to us it brings about hurting pain. My question to you,do you have a family member who has hurt you ? Have you been able to forgive that person ? If not ,ask God to help you forgive completely. Then pray for that person because prayer has a great power to restore broken family relationships . In the process of praying ,you'll being to sense love growing in your heart for the one who hurt you. God will still hold that person accountable for that person has the power to free you from all the pain and bitterness.When we live to protect ourselves from relational pain we cannot live freely or authentically. Instead of surrendering to God ,people governed by fear surrender to their emotions, surrender to people , and surrender to lies, forcing themselves. Christian psychologist says , The core of the false self is the belief that my value depends on what I have,what I can do and what others think of me .When we believe this ,we cannot become what God intended. We can only grow into our true selves when we let the pain from the pass go . And as we surrender to the reality of God's unfailing love for us and his purposes for my life.Try it and discover the wonderful freedom waiting for you when you forgive someone that hurt you the most. Days and nights I would ask God to help me forgive anyone who has hurt me .Enable me to forgive them so completely that I don't hesitate to pray for their greatest blessing.Deliver me from any bitterness ,and help me to live in the freedom of a forgiving heart so that there is complete reconciliation between us. I don't want to experience the terrible consequence of unforgiveness even in the midst of the pain ,I had to let it go .I lift up the areas of my life that are overwhelming and burdensome .I pray that you would take each burden of my heart and help me to rise above every challenging situation in my life I ask You Lord. I truly thank the Lord for His word . ( See, Number 11: 17) " I will come down ad speak with you there , and I will take of the Spirit that is on you and put the Spirit on them.They will help you carry the burden of the people so that you not have to carry it alone" So when you're feeling overwhelmed in the hurting pain He will speak to your heart. Never hesitate to take your troubles to God when you feeling stress over the pain ,he has promised that you do not have to carry the alone. Try it and discover the wonder freedom waiting for you when you let the pain go.