I went to visit my dentist, and just out of a conversation, we started to talk about divorce. He had been through his already, and I was just getting started to go through the motions. In fact, I already had in mind at the time the right attorney and how much money I would need to get myself out of this mess. He told me how he had spent so much money for his attorney’s fees. He told me about how he had wasted money on one attorney and had to get another. The dollars he had spent was in the thousands of. Right then, what went through my head was I didn’t have the kind of money he did; and if he lost his battle in court, I knew I would lose mine as well. Right then and there, I realized depending on the power of a dollar and an attorney weren’t the key. I had to take a different approach.